Do You Hear Voices? Talking In Your Head? I Do!

Shhhh! Listen quietly now! Hear that voice? The one speaking in your head? No? Try reading or spelling or counting quietly to yourself. Go ahead and try it! — one, two, three. Hear that voice inside your head counting? Let me ask you something. — Is that you?

For most of us, our “inner-voice” is a non-stop chatter box, giving advice, emoting feelings, complaining about this and that and running through endless different scenario’s all out-loud inside our heads. It’s constantly telling us what to do, how to feel and how to act and react and it’s been doing this our entire lifetime!

We’re so used to it, we don’t even consciously hear it anymore! Unless of course as we have seen, we try!

Wait a minute! Hear it?” Isn’t that “Hear Me? You know, one and the same? Shouldn’t it be — Hear “My” voice? But are they really one and the same?

Try this. — Try and think of “Nothing!” Just for a couple of minutes. Absolutely “NOTHING!” Just a blank quiet with No Voices! Go ahead, just for two short minutes!

Did you succeed? Did you end up in a fight for control? What if it was for 20 minutes? An Hour? So, no control then? So what does this say about our “inner voice?” I wanted it to be quiet! It was “me” who commanded quiet! So why was the voice not quiet? Is that voice then somehow separate from Me? From the real Me?

DO WE ALL HEAR VOICES?

Surprisingly the answer is NO! Not only do we not all have an inner voice but many of them differ from each other. While most of us do hear a narrative vocal voice in our head, the reality is that we are not actually hearing it at all! There is absolutely no auditory functioning going on! This perceived loud thinking comes from a completely different part of your brain that doesn’t involve sound or hearing.

Weird! But It gets even weirder!

So while some of us hear voices that are not really voices at all, others see (or think) in pictures or images. Still others in Patterns and Connections. And at times we may all think in some combination of the three! But the startling fact is (at least for me as a verbal thinker) that not everyone has an inner monologue! Do You?

THE INNER VOICE

From Michael A. Singer book — The Untethered Soul.

For most of us, we have an ongoing mental dialogue going on inside of our heads. How does it decide what to say, when to say it? Should we believe in what it says? Follow its guidance? And why is it always talking? And who’s talking and who’s listening? The answer is you are! And in both cases!

How weird is that? It’s you who are talking and you who are listening, and when your inner voice and you disagree — it’s you who are arguing with yourself! Almost like 2 different people taking up sides but both of those people are you! It can be a little shocking to realize that your mind has its own voice and is constantly talking (and arguing) with you. — But it’s true!

HEARING IS BELIEVING

The best way to see this (hear this) for yourself is with self-examination. You must step way back as a third-party independent (inside of your head) and look for and listen for when it speaks. Hear what it’s saying and recognize that this voice is not the real you as in “Self.” If your hearing it talk, it’s obviously Not You! You are the one who’s listening to it talk! You are the one who takes notice that it’s talking.

Once you are able to listen to this voice (objectively from afar) you may be surprised at what you hear and may or may not at any particular moment like what it’s saying. Nice things, bad things, overly emotionally charged things? Petty things? Harshly critical things? Perhaps even self-delusional things but the key is to remember and recognize this is not the real you!

You are the one listening. You are NOT the voice of the mind!

If you can persist in your little quest to hear your inner voice, over time you will come to the conclusion that most of what it says — is meaningless! Most of it’s talking is emotionally based and has no real influence on the outside world. Most of life occurs outside of your thoughts and you have very little effect on these at all. In fact, the vast majority of your inner thoughts have no relevance and are usually quickly forgotten.

Your Inner Emotional Voice has no real effect on anybody but you!

The voice only has an impact on how you feel, your emotional turmoil and self-conflicting doubts and fears all played out inside of your head.

 

 

 

 

Life happens in the outside world, outside of the never-ending commotions that your mind makes about your life. Life itself is not the problem! The real problem comes in the lack of control or recognition of your mostly nonsensical babbling thoughts. The conflicting, judgmental and emotional inner voice!

In my opinion — Michael Singer has hit the nail right on the head! Think back to all those useless inner conversations you’ve had over your lifetime and how in retrospect they accomplished nothing. Other than making you an emotional wreck for awhile! Rehearsals of rebuttals that you planned in your head for hours that never came to fruition. Even wasting time after an argument thinking “I should have said this! or that! “Or internally emoting endlessly in anger or anguish over something that never even materialized later.

WHAT KIND OF THINGS DOES “YOUR INNER VOICE” TALK TO YOU ABOUT?


REALITY

Ready for a shocker? The reality you are living in, is not the same as mine, nor exactly the same as anyone else’s! Basically you re-create the outside world inside of yourself according to you, and then live there — in your mind! Your consciousness is experiencing a mental model of reality — yours!

Now before you automatically “Poo-Poo” this observation, stop and think about its truth. Do you and your inner voice not perceive reality together with you as the central figure? Isn’t it almost entirely about you? Doesn’t most of your thoughts, your inner world, mentally revolve around you? How this or that makes you feel? How this affects you and your life? I want this or don’t want that to happen? How can he say that about me? This is what I should do? For me? About me? My life? Me-Me-Me!

Now this sounds awfully self-centered and it is, but it’s also normal human behavior. Remember survival (of the species) is the #1 evolutionary objective and so it’s no-wonder our minds work in this way.

In reality — your not really trying to hold the world together, you’re trying to hold yourself together! In your mind!

INNER GROWTH

Michael Singer and his book goes on to rationalize that “Inner Growth” is dependent upon realizing that the way to inner peace and contentment is to stop listening to your whiny inner voice. To transcend that part of you that is “not okay” and constantly needs “inner protection.” That the “I” who is always talking inside of your head, will never be content! That it will always have a problem with something! And these are self-inducing problems you will never be free of! Unless you take the seat of witness!

The Seat of Witness — Is you as a third party independent observer. A non-verbal listener, sitting in the shadows, simply observing what your inner-voice is saying. Following the conversations, and being aware that you (you inner-voice) is constantly talking to yourself as in your mind.

Do you really wish to replay over and over again a past conversation or argument just to fantasize what you could have said? Or lose sleep over an upcoming worrisome event, that in reality, you have no real control of? Ponder in anguish, your life mistakes, or listen to the inner criticism and judgements you too often make upon yourself? Or on others? — Yep! I’ve done that! You?

The inner voice is constantly verbalizing your emotional-self and it can cause you to become lost in emotions inside of your mind instead of just enjoying and reacting directly with the outside world.

In essence — you are the witness and then there’s the constantly chattering complaining and emotionally charged chatter-box that is your inner voice. And you are basically “locked-up” in there with this mental maniac. It’s only by being constantly aware that this is not you can you ever hope to quiet this voice.

“THE UNTETHERED SOLE”

 

The Untethered Soul: The Journey Beyond Yourself by Michael A …

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Personally I found the first half of his book fascinating and thought-provoking. The second half talks about some mystical energy discharging from our hearts and then delves into faith, religion and the existence of God within our bodies. Not exactly my “Cup of tea” but — perhaps yours?

As with Singer’s book, most of my research into one’s inner voice depicts an over-emotional whiny crybaby who negatively interferes with your life and should be consciously shunned. But others have a different view? They say we should listen to this voice and let it guide us through life…

So which is it?

IS YOUR INNER VOICE HELPFUL OR HINDRANCE? EMOTIONAL OR RATIONAL? GIVES GOOD ADVICE? OR BAD?

PERSPECTIVE

As I look back on my life, in retrospect, I can see how my overly-emotional inner voice played havoc with my thoughts. Winding me up unnecessarily by over-dramatizing life events and social concerns. Particularly in my teen-age years. I assume though, that individually speaking — that was in my case and others may have different experiences with their inner-voice while growing up.

Perhaps it depends on the individual? Their personality, or maybe a genetic carryover? Or maybe, it’s just more active and in turmoil during youth than it is in maturity.

I say this because today, my senior years fast approaching, my voices have become less aggressive and less noticeable. Regardless, thanks to this topic I will forever now be somewhat aware that the voice is there! I’ve even tried (as often as I can remember) to bear witness to my voice from afar. Let me tell you, it’s not that easy. This has been a lifetime occurrence and to try to change me and my inner voice now?

Yet maybe I don’t need to. Most of the times I’ve been noticing my inner voice these days, it’s not whining or complaining or verbalizing overly emotional situations. — It’s singing!

Yep! Singing! You ever hear a song on the radio or from your collection and can’t get it out of your head for a few days? Well I do that too, but with the hundreds of lyrics that I have come to know over a lifetime of songs (from my Country Band days) I have a lot to choose from. And my inner voice seems to want to sing them all!

Whenever I’m doing a boring or hum-drum job and think to listen to what my Inner voice is up to — it’s singing!

With all this talk about how one’s inner voice can negatively affect you I’ll take the reminiscing enjoyment of singing old familiar songs in my head any day. Guess me and my inner voice have finally come to terms.

You could say that after all these years we are finally — “In Tune?”

“We are all fragmented. There is no unitary self. We are all in pieces, struggling to create the illusion of a coherent “ME” from moment to moment.”Charles Fernyhoug.


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16 thoughts on “Do You Hear Voices? Talking In Your Head? I Do!

  1. I will add something else here that I think might help some people. A friend explained it’s not thoughts that are the problem. We can’t help seeing. It’s what we choose to preoccupy ourselves. We do have choices. In WWII, the enemy used mail and the radio to demoralize our people, more so the soldiers. And television was very tame compared to today. If you turn off the television and computer, except for work, you might start to see happiness returning, but then withdrawal symptoms. I believe television programming, internet articles, books and magazines, are demoralizing people. Mental health problems will increase. We’re very particular of what we watch, and if a program has insane and sick commercials during breaks, we change the channel or do something else. On the internet, it’s work, blog, and pretty much nothing else. Even books, if we see things that don’t jive with us, we find another. It’s called being responsible for your own happiness. And we are very concerned with young people going back to school, where many places are filled with propaganda, rhetoric, and incorrect information, much which we can see will demoralize children. Parents must put their kids first, protect their innocence, so they can grow up well, and some might have the answers for the future as they grow in wisdom and parental love.

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    1. Yes of course outside influences, including media, can and do negatively affect ones emotional, therefore mental state. That’s a given! Again, as to my last reply — Looking realistically at the world (including the news, ads and social media) then accepting it for “what it is” — is vital. We are a very easily influenced species, thus being aware of this — we should be doing the thinking for ourselves.

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      1. Yes. But when you really understand, you will face so many who don’t. It’s like I told a friend. Had I never returned to college, and really learned how to learn, separating rhetoric/propaganda from real understanding. Had I not become a teacher, and learned what real understanding is, then using a career to best get the kids to think for themselves, I might not have had the “ah haa” experiences that led to seeing the problems and the unaccepted real solutions. But I’m glad I realized, for we understand why so many don’t see or understand.

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        1. Teaching the young to think for themselves is a very worthwhile cause. In fact critical in today’s misleading social media world. In my mind this should start well before college and be a prerequisite course at least starting in High-school, even before. Along with human emotions and their effects on us, we need to be teaching our children self-understanding and critical thinking to prepare them for the new evils that await them out there today.

          I thank you for your comments. Talk to you later — be well!

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  2. Great mind boggling post! I always figured this was what meditation tries to teach you. To get you to understand this aspect of the mind. That I is not the same as me. The more you can unidentify with the ego the better it is for you mental health. Thanks for giving my monkey mind more chew on!

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    1. Exactly! We’re all unique individuals with different unique minds. So, our Inner-voices are different as well. Some may have problems with theirs and others not so much. The interesting part of it for me was that most of us go through our entire lives not realizing what that voice is! And for some — even that its there at all!

      For those struggling with an over-active and negatively influencing inner-voice, perhaps just being aware its there and what its saying can be the first steps to a better and more peaceful mind. — ie Iglengel comment and response below. Thanks for your comment. Be well!

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      1. I think some of the negativity comes from the world around, listening to too much of that stuff, but also our reactions to the propaganda an rhetoric. People who don’t have a problem, I see it, is because they don’t doubt themselves. They see and read, and know what they’re seeing, and act as each day suggests and requires. They struggle, do their best. But they don’t live in their heads, which means, they’re not fighting inside. They see and do as they see.

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        1. Yep, I agree. Looking realistically at the world and accepting that life is an ever on-going series of changes is a good step towards mental stability. I appreciate your insight!

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  3. A little deep but when one stops and thinks about it a bit and takes a moment to listen to the voices in the back of our head – well, it does make sense. I have always had a hard time going to sleep at night primarily because I was constantly telling myself either what I had to do the next day or hashing over something in my mind that happened prior to bedtime (any daily event). Or, even stating and re-stating the words I intended to say the next day when I spoke to so and so. Until recently that is. I happened to be talking on the phone with my twin brother in PA (yes, there are two of us) and mentioned my sleep dilemma with him and he suggested that I quote sort of a mantra after I lie down that may assist me in clearing my mind thus enabling me to go to sleep faster. I tried it and – well- I do think it worked. What does this have to do with your post? The mind is a complicated complex part of the human anatomy and us mere earthlings will never truly understand it. But, if it sounds like an idea might work to alleviate some of the problems we face day in and day out – at our age – what’s to stop us from trying. Thanks for sharing. Take care and stay safe.

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    1. Great insight Irwin! Not only is the human mind complex and hard to understand but its different in each and every one of us. We all have our own and unique “Inner-voices” to deal with. The key I think, like in your Mantra case, is that we “Do Try” and “Keep Trying” to make our minds a better place to live in.

      Much like your cluttered mind at bedtime issue that you solved, I once was plagued by past memory flashbacks and only the bad ones to boot. I solved these issues myself with my own personal mantra that fit me. So both of us found a way to gain some control over our (overactive?) inner voice because we didn’t give up.

      Perhaps some hope for those still suffering with their own inner voice issues. Keep trying because it can be done! Talk to you later my friend!

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